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Tuesday, May 03, 2016

Requirements for good parenting


  1. Keep my child's emotional love tank full - speak the five love languages.
    • physical touch
    • words of affirmation
    • quality time
    • gifts
    • acts of service
  2. Use the most positive ways I can to control my child's behavior: requests, gentle physical manipulation, commands, punishment, and behavior modification.
  3. Lovingly discipline my child.  Ask, "What does this child need?" and then go about it logically.
  4. Do my best to handle my own anger appropriately and not dump it on my child.  Be kind but firm.
  5. Do my best to train my child to handle anger maturely - the goal is sixteen and a half years. 
From the five love languages of children